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Marble Rye wrote:Maybe it's an acceptance thing.
inverse wrote:It depends. From most people I can't stand getting any attention. I'd prefer to be completely invisible. However, if someone makes it into my inner circle, then I crave attention. But even if I get the attention Ii want from my inner circle, I always twist it around into being some kind of backhanded compliment. (One of the most common thoughts that go through my head is, obviously they couldn't track down who they really wanted to talk to so they had to settle for me...) So basically it's never a good thing, but sometimes it's worse than others.
Unsocial Butterfly wrote:Does anyone else have a love/hate relationship with receiving attention? For example, at work I have often hoped to get recognized for hard work, but if it did happen then I hated being the centre of attention. I have a hard time being the centre of attention, because I start beating myself up and telling myself that I am too self-absorbed.
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