sobriainebrietas wrote:maybe you are getting ready to be ready for a girlfriend?
I'm the sort of guy who prefers a boyfriend, actually.
I've been sortof ready for that for many years, but I am too anxious to make friends, romantic or otherwise. Since I believe that regular frienships would be easier to form (based on no evidence or experience at all) that's been my first target to aim for. Once I've achieved some of those, maybe I could take off from there to a more intimate relationship. But this recent craving for more physical comfort, which cannot be provided by normal friends, makes it clear that maybe I should switch my priorities, or regard them equally important.
Ok, that was the long way of answering yes to your question.