by shock_the_monkey » Sat Jul 03, 2010 11:11 pm
hi topaz,
that was actually the first book i read about AS. i found it in my local oxfam, and because a friend's wife had suggested i might have it, i bought the book, more out of curiosity than anything else.
i do get where you're coming from when you say you couldn't relate to it. but i think that danny's main problem was his self-medicating with alcohol. i don't do that. also, another feature of his life was what he referred to as 'the game'. i don't do that either. however, what i certainly could relate to was the theraputic effect that driving has, and the desire to avoid conflict too that was so much a part of danny's character. also, to a certain extent, i do understand why he just disappeared. he just couldn't face up to trying to resolve the problems in his relationship with the author and disappearing was just another way of avoiding that conflict.
but what i most got out of this book was the way the author went to some trouble to explain the characteristics of AS. prior to reading that book i'd done some searches on the web and found nothing particularly compelling. post, i felt i could relate to the symptoms of AS, and perhaps most importantly, it was blatantly obvious that i scored very highly on the self-test that was included. so, i started reading more widely and started finding more and more stuff that really hit home with me.
so, i have to say that i'm grateful to barbara jocob's for writing her book. it was the one that openned my eyes to AS.
shock_the_monkey.
PS: i nearly forgot. no, i don't think danny was bi-polar (manic depressive).
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey
there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey
don't like it but i guess i'm learning
... shock the monkey to life