by Lofty » Mon Feb 08, 2010 11:57 pm
I'm not sure it's the system, I think it's just the way people are - and by this, I am not entirely excluding myself - that in general people are very good at being ignorant at an amazing amount of things - it's how they function. I know my ability to stay sane relies on me stopping taking notice of everything - something those on the spectrum are good at - ignoring and focusing on the important tasks of the day - eg work college whatever. If someone complains of having difficulty it's far too easy to just say "oh yes I'll deal with that tomorrow" and then forget about it in life's endless chores and challenges. Unless that problem comes back it is likely to be disregarded. You don't have to be aggressive when reminding people, just a simple restatement will do.
"There are only things in life which are infinite: the universe and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe."