PasserBy wrote:... ...the sexual act itself is kind of "alien" and I lose my erection during the first thrusts. Moreover, sometimes I get anxious in relationships whenever I feel that sex is possible.
What you have desribed above is exactly what happened to me the last time I tried it. I am 24, male, and I have Asperger's & OCD too. Sex doesn't appeal to me too much anymore - I'm more interested in just finding a partner because I hate the thought of being alone (even though I need a lot of alone time too).
Masturbation? - I view it as a chore but I do it once every two days. I feel that I have to masturbate in a pathetic attempt to raise my testosterone levels which I fear are very low. While viewing it as a chore, I have actually perfected the art of it for I am capable of having multiple orgasms - Yes, this is possible even if you are male. I managed to train my muscles to do this by reading tantric sex books.