Need opinions.....

As I am working on a bio about abuse, I want to get what I am describing right.

So what does this sound like to you...

My ex was nuts
The man was (is) addicted to anger. He and his family both. If there was nothing to be angry about, they made something up.

He got a perverse pleasure out of torchering me. Not teasing, real live screaming and yelling at me, threatening to beat me or kill me. He was at his happest when he was hitting me. More than once I saw him with a errection while belittling me and watching my heart break yet again.

He had no remorse for his actions, took no responciblity for them, always told me that I made him do it.

Nothing was ever is fault. He could break something because he was careless, yet it was someone elses fault for having put it in his way.

Sexualy manipulitve. If I wanted something I had to preform for it.

Self rightous. Great self importance.

He would go throu deep bouts of depression when things would not go his way.

Can you tell me if this fits any of the personallity disorders or if you need me to explain something to shed more light???

I am only speculating, but the first thing that popped into my mind was simply Narcissism. Reason being, i can relate, minus the physical abuse.

He sounds like a lovely person who knew what gets his jollies off and didn't hesitate to do it. I've never gotten an erection from inflicting pain to others, emotional or otherwise, and i've never been depressed. Ofcourse his depression might have been an act to get sympathy. He does indeed sound like a Narcissist. Ofcourse, you would be better off asking a professional as i dont think many here have any qualifications to asses his mental disorders based on his behaviour, reported second hand no less.

Hell, i could diagnose him from that behavior alone.

Oh one more thing...

He would eat a bunch of food and then throw it up, some evenings over and over and over again.
He wanted to eat the food, but did not want to be "fat".

He was also a perfectionist. He was pathilogical about it.

VTheChaosTheoryV wrote:Hell, i could diagnose him from that behavior alone.

And i can diagnose you as being a cat.

Please guys,,, I need your help, I appreciate it,
To each their own.

Jando wrote:

VTheChaosTheoryV wrote:Hell, i could diagnose him from that behavior alone.

And i can diagnose you as being a cat.

And i could diagnose you as a jackass, but it's all the same to you.

workingitforward wrote:Please guys,,, I need your help, I appreciate it,
To each their own.

Sounds like Bulimia.

Sounds like he's a nice guy and you deserved it.