I apologize if this post is a bit rambling. I am basically writing about some things I've been thinking about recently and I'm curious to hear what other people think. I'm going to focus mostly on psychopaths but I suppose much of this could be applied to sociopaths and APD in general, too.
We've been told that psychopath lacks a conscience, lacks a sense of guilt, and a sense of remorse. But these are all very complicated emotions. We know it isn't true that a psychopath lacks all emotions. Certainly they can feel anger, can have a sense of happiness, and they share the same basic human desires that everyone else does to varying degrees. In a way you can argue that everyone is driven by those desires and the higher level emotions are artificial. The law-abiding psychopath is law-abiding because he sees the potential negative consequences, whether they be legal or otherwise, of his actions. The "normal" is law-abiding for those and more reasons. Namely, he has a inner-concept of right and wrong which is driven by his ability to empathize. But where does this empathy come from? It comes from the guilt he feels when he hurts another person because he is able to put himself in that person's place and feel the feelings they would. Anybody can do that, even psychopaths, though. Most psychopaths tend to be intelligent, and so they know their actions could hurt other people but they don't care. They can see the emotions in other people but they don't feel them themselves. A violent psychopath is unable to empathize with the fear and pain that his victim feels. Perhaps that is because he doesn't ever feel fear and pain himself. And that might be somewhat true -- many psychopaths experience fear as nothing more than an adrenaline rush. It is perhaps a positive emotion similar to one a normal would get riding a roller coaster. They are never really truly terrified to the extent that the possibility of that feeling recurring causes them to modify their behavior. I'm going to suggest that is possibly a characteristic of a psychopath -- a numbed, or under-developed sense of fear.
I think about how a normal reacts when he is faced with a disturbing situation. For example, let's say he witnesses a violent car accident. He will be a bit shaken. He might have nightmares, disturbing thoughts that persist. He might not be quite himself, but eventually he will get over it and forget. Why was he disturbed? I think it is out of fear. It is because he imagines himself in that situation. He imagines himself getting hit by that car. He imagines himself as one of the family members of the person injured and he thinks about how he would feel and he is scared. He thinks about the pain those people suffered and inevitable end of his own life. He wishes it never happened because if everyone is safe and happy, he is safe and happy too.
Guilt and fear have more in common that one might think. A sense of guilt can come from a inner belief in a higher-being, that one day someone will judge you for your behavior. Or it could come from a belief that your actions will be found out by your peers and you will be punished. Or perhaps a belief in karma, that one day something bad will happen to you. But even if a normal claims to believe in none of these things, he has a sense of guilt, which I believe stems from these very causes I listed whether he claims he believes them or not. The fear of being judged is overwhelming for a normal, whether it is from a higher-being or from another person. Perhaps it is the psychopath's inflated ego and self-esteem that prevent them from ever feeling judged and thus ever feeling guilty.
Even if the psychopath does not empathize with the emotions of others because he can not feel those emotions himself, one would think it is still in his best interest to obey the rules of society with regards to lying, cheating, stealing, manipulating, etc. Sure enough, there are many very successful psychopaths who do exactly that and only resort to manipulation when the benefits significantly outweigh the risks. But normals, even if they share the same desires as psychopaths, don't behave that way. Rather than ask the psychopath "why", perhaps we should ask the normal "why not". On the conscious side of things, some people are driven to be "good" from the same desires the psychopath has. The normal exhibits good behavior because he wants to be well-liked. He wants to be popular. He wants to be respected by his family and peers. But the normal person will still behave that way when no one is looking. The psychopath will not. The normal is able to see how good behavior contributes to a smoothly functioning society. They are able to see that if everyone lied and cheated and stole our society would collapse. But psychopaths are not anarchists. They must know this too. There has got to be something more the normal has that makes them follow through with these beliefs.
Again, I believe some of it comes from fear, and some of it comes from a innate desire to conform because we evolved that way and our society depends on it. The normal is able to see into the future of their lives and those around them and recognize what behavior is going to give them the most satisfaction. Perhaps the psychopath is unable to see this. Perhaps they are fundamentally short-sighted. Perhaps they are just unable to piece together the subtleties of human interaction and emotion and see that greater happiness will result from good behavior. This all must happen at subconscious level. I haven't really been able to come to a specific conclusion, but I wonder if the psychopath suffers from a kind of mental disability that prevents him from being able to make those kinds of logical conclusions with regard to morality at a very young age. Or maybe a psychopath would argue the normals are the illogical ones because it is difficult to logically argue the necessity for a moral conscience on an individual basis.
As of now there appears to be no treatment for someone with a psychopathic disorder. It seems to occur in all types of people without regard to their socioeconomic status, family upbringing or anything else. The psychopath also believes that he does not have a disorder at all. He will never know what he is missing and therefore doesn't want to be like everyone else. Can the normal person understand the psychopath, though? I believe he can because everyone has some natural damper on their emotions. It is necessary to survive. One example might be the recent events in Haiti. For many who don't live there and have no connection to the country it is a very "sad" situation. But for all the horror that occurred there, how many people do you think cried about it? For how many people did it really effect their lives? And for those who say they care, and claim to be upset, was it because they really were or because they want to feel like they are good people? They know consciously how horrible it was, and maybe they are slightly effected internally, but they are able to keep a fairly significant amount of emotional detachment because it really doesn't effect them personally. I contend that the psychopath is the same way. The only difference is the psychopath is that way even about situation who one would normally consider to be much closer to them. The feelings of family members and of friends are so far removed from their own lives, their own happiness, that they only react in as much as it personally effects them. To a normal, this is horrifying, and yet we brush off disturbing situations all the time.





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