Society wasn't doing anything to him, crystal. Society wasn't out to get him, nor did it care about him in particular. Not when he was living in Montana and doing what he wished to do.
What occurred, it appears, is that slowly the land around him began to be developed in some way, and that brought change as it always does. Development started happening to his wilderness.
If he wanted nothing to do with society and whatever expectations he felt society was attempting to place on him, he could have chosen to move to an even more remote place, or to return to civilization and use his brilliance of a sort to persuade others to join him in his ideas about the evils of technology.
Instead, he decided to hide his identity, and blow people up for many years, while still living in the place that angered him.
Society isn't to blame for his anger over technology nor for his methods to try to resolve his anger. He chose his methods, though I understand that he was under internal pressure and, he felt, external pressure, to take extreme measures to capture attention for his ideas.
I have sympathy for him as a child - his brilliance led those who cared for him to make several missteps iin guiding his childhood development and his education. He was also mistreated at Harvard as a young man by his participation in the inhumane psychological experiments conducted there at the time. His childhood, as well as his natural inclinations and intelligence, set him up.
But it was not Society (sometimes that word is used as if it's a person, an entity) that tried to turn him into a robot.
He could have carved his own way, either within society or without. He could have been a maverick professor if he wished, publishing papers that flew in the face of whatever structure he felt opposed to. He could have had influence on countless students if he'd remained a professor, and used his job to sow the seeds of his ideas in young minds. He could have accepted a paycheck from whatever employment, biding his time til he had enough money to retreat to some tropical island for the rest of his days. He could have legitimately felt his anger at the way that people were choosing to live, and still not made a personal choice to take matters in his own hands and kill people.
He could have...
But instead he's living in a metal cell for the rest of his life.
That's often what happens when Society is blamed for one's own poor choices. I see it all the time, and it makes me sad mostly.