Blivandefar wrote:Do you have any history, whether you were the victim or perpetrator, of physical violence in a relationship?
Blivandefar wrote:I have a reason for asking.
Got into a bit of a scrap with the Missus. She punched me. Straight in the nose. I pushed her with my forearm against a wall, and told her to never fuking do that again, all while pressing my bone against her throat, preventing her from breathing. I wasn't thinking of my superior strength.
When I let go, she dropped to the ground and started crying. I apologized.
Not the worst thing I've done, but certainly the worst I've felt after the fact.
MasoCat wrote:I have history as victim, though not as perpetrator to the best of my knowledge.
My father was the stereotypical abusive alcoholic. He verbally abused me though never physically; albeit I did witness him on three occasions beating my mother. I have not seen him in around ten years.
I was in a relationship with another person for five years. At first the relationship was fairly "healthy" (there was a two year age gap which didn't bother either of us), but during the latter two years of the relationship it devolved into mental and sexual abuse and he repeatedly raped me until I eventually broke up with him due to anger and left. Though after the relationship ended, he insisted to our mutual friends I was the one abusing him. Though I do not believe I was doing anything untoward to him.
MotherRussia wrote:She shouldn't have punched you. The rule usually is if you hit, expect to get hit back. The cops won't arrest the person who hit back, at least where I live...even if they are the man and obviously stronger.
Hopefully she learned her lesson and won't hit you again.
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