lolidk downplays her narcissism on here because isn't as well received as she expected. if you read her older posts it's more obvious imo, especially her first ones. she'll even downplay her subsequent responses to you if she thinks it isn't well received.
which i don't know, is that characteristic of NPD? that sort of self-monitoring?
anyway, that relationship arrangement isn't really restrictive at all, i guess it is how you see it.
like...am i a queen or a dependent at someone else's mercy?
i think it is silly to interpret it as the latter...especially when you can just leave and fall back on mommy and daddy...or just find someone else.
i mean even while you are with someone you get to know quite intimately their friends, etc, so there are lots of options should things go sour.