What to do? I am living a boring life

What is your disability?

You can learn skills and work from home informally. Man, plenty to do in the world!

You just have to know where to start. Work on yourself first, then learn some skills. People will be drawn to you when you're interesting (aka: useful to them).

twistednerve wrote:What is your disability?

You can learn skills and work from home informally. Man, plenty to do in the world!

You just have to know where to start. Work on yourself first, then learn some skills. People will be drawn to you when you're interesting (aka: useful to them).

I have mental anxiety/depression and a learning disability also my back spasms and becomes dislocated due to an old back injury I believe I have pinched nerves in my lower back I was also born with a straight spine and neck and have left shoulder injuries and pinched nerves.
I can't even get my GED due to my learning disability and my anxiety plays into the learning disability I am on med which keeps me from having constant anxiety attacks.
But I just don't know what to do.

tinamnd wrote:

twistednerve wrote:What is your disability?

You can learn skills and work from home informally. Man, plenty to do in the world!

You just have to know where to start. Work on yourself first, then learn some skills. People will be drawn to you when you're interesting (aka: useful to them).

I have mental anxiety/depression and a learning disability also my back spasms and becomes dislocated due to an old back injury I believe I have pinched nerves in my lower back I was also born with a straight spine and neck and have left shoulder injuries and pinched nerves.
I can't even get my GED due to my learning disability and my anxiety plays into the learning disability I am on med which keeps me from having constant anxiety attacks.
But I just don't know what to do.

Which learning disability is that?

Well, you can start watching and reading about physicsl therapy, pilates and so om. You can do it at home.

I have a low IQ and I get confused easy and when I try to push myself my anxiety steps in and I blank out and it stops me from learning.
Once I pushed my self on the job mentally years ago and almost flipped out.
I was taking the bus home and everything around me turned into the 20's it scared me!
also when I quit that job I couldn't stop obsessive thought of all of the stuff I di learn I kept repeating it in my head and felt like I was going to lose it.
And I tried physical therapy years ago and it hurt me and irritated my condition.
I can't even walk that much.
maybe a 1/2 hour to 45 min or it will start bugging my back.

Good god do you have any more excuses to throw at us?

lolidk wrote:Good god do you have any more excuses to throw at us?

There is some truth to this...

I've been there...where I have lost motivation and passion and have become frustrated by suggestions to do things I cannot , or do not feel like doing.

Tinamnd ..you need to discard the victim and defeatist attititude. There are people worse off than you pushing thru pain barriers emotionally and physically , but refuse to allow life to defeat them.
Perhaps read some inspiring bipgraphies to get your attitude right.

You have survived this long and life aint easy....That counts for a lot...and proves you are stronger and more capable than you feel at moment.
Perhaps allow yourself this time to do nothing....enjoy it...and take your time thinking about what kind of things you CAN do, within the physical and mental limitations you feel you have at moment.

Another option is to take up a relationship with someone with BPD...Life will NEVER be boring then...

Another option is to take up a relationship with someone with BPD...Life will NEVER be boring then...

What are you trying to do ? Kill her?

InSpiritus wrote:

Another option is to take up a relationship with someone with BPD...Life will NEVER be boring then...

What are you trying to do ? Kill her?

better than dying of boredom.
And drama can be highly addictive :

Are you guys attacking me?
I can not believe it! I thought I could maybe get some understanding and support from you people.
I am not exaggerating about my situation and the only way I have lost motivation is through relationships and do you blame me look what happened again with you people. Every time I try to trust someone this is what happens huh.You people need to think about how your answers might be effecting others.
This was not good.

Wow people,
I don't understand why are antisocial people on a forum anyway?